Trending Tuesday: Wedding Talk

This week's Trending Tuesday is dedicated to those couples who leave a consultation with a vendor and think....WHAT were they talking about? As wedding professionals, we are around these types of conversations daily, so we talk in code more often than not. It is totally normal for the couple to get lost in the translation of abbreviations like :"MOB, FOG, FG, BM, etc. So couples, this one is for you! We put together a little list of commonly used abbreviations for you learn, and maybe even use, in your wedding planning journey!

BIL - Brother in Law

BM- Best Man or Bridesmaid

BP- Bridal Party

DOC- Day-of Coordinator

FG- Flower Girl

FOB-  Father of Bride

FOG- Father of Groom

GM- Groomsmen

MIL- Mother-in law

MOG- Mother of Groom

MOH- Maid of Honor or Matron of Honor

RB- Ring Bearer

SIL- Sister-in Law

STD- Save the Date

WP- Wedding Party


Is this helping? Here are a few more terms that we think may be helpful to know!


Black Tie - A formal affair. Think tuxedos and evening gowns.

Black Tie Optional- Tuxedos and evening gowns are suggested, but not required.

Boutonniere- A small arrangement, typically floral, pinned to the left lapel of a jacket.

Blusher- A short veil, typically shoulder length, to cover the bride's face.

Bustle- Attaching the train of the bride's dress by pinning it in place.

Cash Bar- Guests pay for their own drinks.

Charger- Larger, typically more decorative, plate that rests under the dinner plate.

Cocktail Attire- Less formal dress code that calls for suites and cocktail dresses.

Escort Card- Card that directs guests to their assigned tables.

Family Style- A dinner where guests pass around the food and help themselves as if they were at their own dinner table.

Garter- Band of fabric fastened around the bride's leg.

Open Bar- A bar where drinks are free for guests.

Place Cards- Designates a seat for guests at the table.

Processional- Bridal parties entrance into the ceremony.

Receiving  Lines- Couple greets each guest in turn as they enter the reception.

Recessional- When the wedding party exits following the end of the ceremony.

Save the Date- A "pre-invite" sent out early in the planning process to mark your guests calendars.

Stationary Suite- All the wedding stationary- save the dates, invitations, rsvp, receptions cards, etc.

Sweetheart Table- A two top table, specifically designed for the newlyweds

Unity Candle- A ceremonial representation of two families becoming one.

Trending Tuesday: First Looks

In the spirit of Valentines Day, we thought we would tug at the heart strings a bit. Today's topic: First Looks! We tend to have a very similar conversation with a lot of our couples on if they should do a first look or not. So, we thought we would share some of our thoughts!

1. Time - Most photographers would also agree that first looks allow for much more time with the couple, rather than trying to squeeze a bunch of photos in a small window of time during cocktail hour.

2. The Moment - We have never met a bride who regretted having a first look with her hubs. It is a moment of pure anticipation and overcoming joy when you see one another for the first time. It also make for some super sweet photos.

3. Nerves- Seeing one another for the first time allows for some of the nerves and anxiousness of the big day to pass. There is no doubt that the man you are marrying is one of the most comforting human beings, are we right? Having him wrap you up in a great big hug before one of the biggest days of your lives together is so calming.

4. Reception Reveal - (our personal favorite) I think every planner's favorite moment of any wedding is the moment the bride and groom see all of their hopes and dreams come to life right before their eyes. All of the handwork and strategic planning is behind you, and you are hand in hand with the person of your dreams, and the setting is perfect, and it's YOUR WEDDING DAY

5. Family - First looks are becoming much more popular with the ones who loved you first. Parents, grandparents, friends, etc. Some of our favorite moments are the bride's first look with these people. After all, they played a huge part in getting you here today!

What are your thoughts? Do you prefer more tradition, first see her walking down the isle, or a more spontaneous first look?

Photos by: Amanda Watson Photography

Photos by: Redeemed Productions

EB2's Trending Tuesday

We are starting a new weekly blog series called Trending Tuesday, and we are really excited about this week's topic! Drum roll please..... GREENERY! Greenery is the new floral. Ok, not really, but it is definitely making a name for itself in the wedding world. As a fun alternative to floral, greenery  has the ability to adapt to any style you're going for. Here at EB2, we've incorporated greenery in ballrooms, museums and barns too! From being used as table runners, to garlands framing gorgeous beams and drapes, we are definitely falling more and more in love with this trend.

Let's talk about budget. Greenery and foliage will tend to be much more affordable than fresh flowers, and typically lasts a bit longer as well. It also makes a gorgeous option for bridal bouquets for the Bride or Bridesmaids, and there is really so many different ways to incorporate color, shape, size and texture! One thing most of our brides are always adamant about is making their wedding different then a friends or family members. Greenery has the ability to do just that! 

What are your thoughts? Are you looking for inspiration to help make your dreams a reality? Here is a look back at some of our favorite ways we helped our brides incorporate greenery into their big day. As always, we have tagged the amazing vendors who knocked it out of the park with their creative masterpieces!